Once you get your tank filled it will be nearly impossible to move, so plan ahead.
Your aquarium dealer offers a number of tank stands that will support the weight of a filled aquarium. I usually use a sturdy dresser or oak sideboard. A gallon of water weights 8 pounds. A 30-gallon fish tank, filled, would weigh more than 240 pounds! Make sure that you have a piece of furniture that will hold that much weight.
Also, try to keep your tank in an area of the room that doesn't get much sunlight. Direct sun will heat the water and cause unwanted algae to grow. It is much easier to regulate the heat and light in the tank with a fluorescent hood and a submersible heater.
Once you get it home, check your new tank. Take the tank out on the driveway and fill it with the garden hose. Check that all the seams are good and the tank will hold water. Better that this thing will leak here than in your living room. Once you're confident in your new tank, siphon out the water and carry it to it's final spot. Get it exactly where you want it. Make sure there's room behind it for pumps and accessories, because you're not going to be able to nudge it forward once it's full.
Tape the background on the back of the tank. It's easiest to place while you can still tip the tank forward and lay it on it's front. I use clear packaging tape to secure it. Cut the background to size and secure it on both sides.
Rinse the gravel. Dump the gravel you bought into a bucket and rinse it 3 or 4 times with a hose. The water will run clear after you have rinsed enough.
Put in the undergravel filter plate (if you're using one) and its lift tube. Pour the rinsed gravel in and spread it around. Slope your gravel so it's higher in the back. I like to have it just below the bottom frame in front and about 3-4 inches deep in the back. The optical illusion of the water will level it out.
Put in your sunken ships, skulls, mermaids, and all the silly decorations you bought at the pet store. Or the driftwood and rocks. Plant your plants. Put a dinner plate on the gravel to pour the water on. This prevents the gravel from cratering out from under the torrent of water.
Fill the tank. I find it's easiest to detach the hose from the bib, carry the hose upstairs and throw the spigot end out the window to reattach. Have a helper hold the other end in the tank while you turn on the water. (I always try to stick the hose down in the tank and fold it around once and turn the water on by myself. By the time I'm back upstairs the water is pouring out on the floor. Get a helper.) Fill the tank just shy of the top. You're probably going to want to stick your arm in there and rearrange a few things after the flood. Once you're satisfied, fill the tank up.
At this point, you need to start treating that water. An airstone or a powerhead with an aerator for 24 hours will remove most of the chlorine. I usually use the recommended dosage of StressCoat. Leave the hood off to let some off the gases dissipate.
If you're wondering the size of your tank (or you don't trust the dealer), do this simple trick. Measure the side of the tank and multiply. For example your tank measures 12 by 24 by 16.5 inches. Multiply W by L by D and divide by 231. (12X24X16.5)/231 = 20.57 gallons.
Get the pumps and the filters running. Make any adjusts now, before there's fish in there. Once you're rid of the chlorine, you're ready to cycle your tank.